I've always been a highly functioning person. I could work hard, run a business, show up for my family, and get a lot done.
But over the past year, I've learned that functioning and operating at my best are two different things.
I changed a few habits, and the difference in my productivity has felt like 10X. I'm sharper at work, more present at home, and better prepared for the goals I'm chasing. None of it happened because I found a secret. I made a few promises to myself and started keeping them.
The biggest change wasn't adding more to my schedule. It was getting honest about the habits that were helping me and the ones that were holding me back. I built my week around five commitments that help me show up the way I want to. I don't hit every one perfectly, but I keep coming back to them.
1. Move Six Days A Week
Most weeks, that means three weight workouts, one cardio and core session, and two hikes. I do my best to get them done early in the morning, before the day starts making demands of me.
I've dealt with a low level of anxiety for most of my life. It wasn't always obvious to anyone else, but I could feel that nervous energy in the mornings. Since making early workouts a consistent part of my routine, that feeling has virtually disappeared. I start the day feeling steady and ready to go.
2. Be In Bed By 9 P.M., Sunday Through Thursday
Friday and Saturday are more relaxed. I might stay up later. But during the workweek, I've learned that the next morning starts the night before.
If I want to get up early, train, think clearly, and have energy left for my family at the end of the day, sleep has to be a priority. I can't keep borrowing from tomorrow and expect to perform well today.
3. Start The Morning With Breathwork And Meditation
When I get up, I brush my teeth, find a comfortable place to sit, and give myself a few minutes before I let the world in. I do three rounds of breathwork, then seven minutes of meditation.
It's a small window of time, but it changes how I enter the day. I'm giving myself a chance to settle my mind and decide where my attention is going before emails, problems, and other people start deciding for me.
4. Read 10 Pages A Day
This is the one I struggle with most. Reading has never come easily to me, and I still miss days. But I keep it on the list because I know what happens when I make room to learn and think beyond whatever is urgent that day.
Ten pages isn't a lot. That's the point. It's a promise I can keep, even when I don't feel like it. Some days, discipline looks less like a massive breakthrough and more like opening the book.
5. No Alcohol During The Week
This one has had a bigger impact than I expected.
I'm not against alcohol. I'm not telling anyone else they need to quit drinking. I try to live with moderation. But after multiple failed attempts to build my best possible week, I had to be honest with myself: alcohol during the workweek made the other commitments harder to keep.
It affected my sleep, my mornings, my workouts, and my focus. Once I saw that pattern, I couldn't pretend it wasn't there. For me, there's no place for it Sunday through Thursday.
I'm sharing this because I know how easy it is to say you want more from your life and business while holding on to habits that drain the energy you need to get there. I've done it myself.
I have some lofty goals over the next few months. Reaching them will take more than ambition. I need to be locked in, and I need to show up well for the people who matter most to me along the way.
This routine has changed how I show up as a business owner, a husband, and a dad. It's still a work in progress, and so am I.
What does your current routine look like? Is it helping you build the life and business you want? If you're working through that question, I'd be happy to chat.
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